Let me rephrase it. You can't use Message as the rowTag, because it's the root element. rowTag implies that it's a tag within the root element, which might occur multiple times. Check the docs around reading and write XML files, there you'll find examples which include a root tag (books) and row tags (book). If you check on this page the docs of from_xml, you'll see that "rowTag option is not applicable" due the exact same reason: You read just a single record.
To solve your issue, you either need to introduce another root tag (which I read is not an option for you), or to find another row tag, which might be Attribute. I hope it helps!