There is no built-in way in Databricks Asset bundles or terraform to automatically inherit the value of driver_node_type_id for node_type_id.
"You must set both explicitly in your configuration"

You can always see your updated detail resource from the terraform state what its applied. (As Databricks Asset bundle managed by terraform in backend).
if you are in Linux follow below steps to dig more based on your situation.
cd ~/.databricks/bundle/<env>/terraform
Under this you will see bundle.tf.json anf teraform.tfstate file.
You can dig to understand the resource with 
#terraform state show databricks_job.<resource>