I am having the same issue (Azure Databricks).
I have a running compute cluster analytics-compute-cluster running in Single User access mode. The Event Log for the cluster says the cluster is running and the "Driver is healthy".
I have Manage permission on the cluster. I am the creator of the Notebook we are trying to attach to the compute cluster.
From the Attach to an existing compute resource dialogue, choose the "General compute" option.
I'm expectiing to see my running cluster in the drop down list "Select a cluster" but it is not there.